Female Ejaculation & G-spot Orgasm
Q. When it comes to female ejaculation, I’ve heard that most guys don’t realize the amount a woman actually comes when she has g-spot orgasm – do you have any ideas for how to explain this to a new sexual partner? I don’t want him to freak out and make him think I’m peeing on him. Also, do you have any ideas to deal with how soaked my mattress gets?
A. Female ejaculation is a topic that readers constantly write to us about. I think that telling your potential partner all about how you come could be hot. Besides, what man wouldn’t want to make a woman do that?! Someone who’s grossed out by the concept probably won’t be able to please you anyway.
Here are some suggestions for what to have on hand for the wet encounter. There are some excellent products for this type of thing made by Liberator. They make throw blankets for the couch or bed, cushy waterproof mats for outdoor/indoor play and ergonomically shaped pillows that can improve your g-spot experience. The products come in a variety of removable covers that are washable. It’s also a good idea to have a good quality lubricant on hand – my favorites right now are the water-based lubes by Jo and by O’My.
Although you might feel shy explaining female ejaculation to a potential partner, use it to your advantage. If you never explain fundamental things about what your body is capable of, you’re selling yourself short and limiting your sexual experience potential.
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me and my boyfriend are trying out many new positions and i just found out more about the G-spot today. normally when we have sex i get orgasm from my clit. and never from my G-spot. i have searched for it recently and i have found a washboard like spongry area, but when i rub it or do the come hither motion..i just feel pressure. i dnt feel anything. can u help me figure out how to stimulate the G-spot?
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i cant find my wifes g spot she has never orgasmed like that . how do i find it and what are some great techniques
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me and my boyfriend have talked about it on a serious note, he gets mad at me when i hold back from an orgasm, but it is so embarrassing when i do "squirt"... it just seems grose.. i know its natural, but it just seems like i am truely peeing.. but it feels sooooooooo good.. its like a never ending orgasm.. my question is.. is it bad to keep having sex during that orgasm.. its because he is fairly large and my "cum" seems to not come out until after he pulls out.. is it bad?? should i just jump off during orgasm?? or just keep doing what i am doing..
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*Copied from the Message Board (digger10 14 Nov 07)*
i would be happy if during the oral caressing of a womans lower area,she were to spray me, i would gladly lick all of it up and hopefully have it happen again.
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*Copied from the Message Board (Laika 28 Oct 07)*
I have never heard of a guy who would say "no" if you asked him to talk about issues regarding squirting... Actually, just hearing such topic they all go crazy, nearly like "yeah yeah, let's talk...", ears big like a bunny trying to hear everything. Probably, best way to start the serious conversation in order to get attention... off topic, but I hope it makes sense.
Other thing is I think it's mostly women who feel uncomfortable about this feeling nearly like peeing and leaving quite a similar result. I guess a good way to avoid the fear of soaked mattresses would be doing it in the bathroom, shower, bathtub o anything like that - where you deal with water all the time anyway.
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*Copied from the Message Board (BigKahuna 20 Oct 07)*
ROFL not sure how its spelt... but touche!!!
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*Copied from the Message Board (sera300 20 Oct 07)*
And you believe women love to do the laundry and have soaked sheets? I hate sleeping in the proverbial "wet spot", not always caused by me.
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*Copied from the Message Board (BigKahuna 20 Oct 07)*
The majority of the guys I know, including myself, find it arrousing... However, we don't always like to be surprised by having our sheets soaked... (we hate doing laundry!)
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*Copied from the Message Board (Brandye 18 Oct 07)*
The "Q." reinforces a specious stereotype. Women who squirt may squirt with what you call a G-Spot orgasm or with a clitoral orgasm; women who do not squirt, do not squirt with either type.
Dealing with the fluid has been treated so many times on the forums. Towels, plastic sheet, do it on the grass. No, the last has never been mentioned but I have often been tempted.