Asking for Oral Sex

Q. I want my girl to give me a blowjob. How should I ask her?

A. Communication in a relationship is the key to success … especially when it comes to matters relating to sex. If this will be a first experience of sex for either of you then take time out and read our articles on Am I Ready (For Her) , Her First Time and His First Time.

If you are both experienced and your communication is good overall, then what’s the problem? Talk to her about the things you both already do … and hopefully enjoy … and express your desire to try other things such as Oral Sex.

Ask her what she would like you to do for her too – such as Cunnilingus! Be prepared for the possibility that she might not wish to give you Fellatio (a.k.a. blowjob) – not all women are into it. If so, respect her wishes and ask her to try something else you might both enjoy.