Best position for his duration & her enjoyment

Q. I love the website :) I was just wondering... what’s the best sex position for vaginal intercourse that stimulates the woman the most and hardly stimulates the man at all? So I can make her come before me!! ahah!!! Or maybe recommend a few so it’s not too boring ... thanks!!! :)

A. What stimulates one woman may do very little, or nothing, for another. The key is to experiment and see what works for her. Start with the positions that give her most control – there are plenty to choose from in the Cowgirl Family. That way she can guide the action and adapt according to what works best for her. Give her feedback as you go if you start to feel over-stimulated … that way you stand a far better chance of out-lasting her. Happy trails!

(p.s. You should check out our article Lasting Longer for practical tips on how to hold back while she finishes first.)