Do you and your partner have a go-to position or do you mix it up?
Genuinely asking because my girlfriend and I realized we basically rotate between the same three and we've been meaning to branch out. This site has a ridiculous amount of positions and I didn't even know half of them existed.
Are most people creatures of habit or do you actively try new stuff? And if you do try new things, how do you bring it up without it being weird?
Vastused:
I try new positions. He's not imaginative. So I just verbally or physically instruct him how to pose, and we go from there.
"his site has a ridiculous amount of positions and I didn't even know half of them existed. Are most people creatures of habit or do you actively try new stuff? And if you do try new things, how do you bring it up without it being weird."
Most positions are slight variations of a basic one, or tweaks. My wife and I tweak almost all our main ones, which as you stated becomes a ridiculous amount of positions. We never named them, or looked them up, but now that I am here we have connected them with names listed. My wife and I actively try new stuff, she's a major go getter. I learned early on, I can influence her, but in the end it turns out best if she is into it. As for bringing it up, that's part of the fun of it, bringing up sex, talking about it. We love discussing sex. While she is not a forum person, she does enjoy talking sex with friends and me. You guys/gals are my go to like her friends for her. Well, she is my main go to but you get what I mean.