My vote leans towards the yes side... If you guys have agreed to be exclusive, not being exclusive is exposing him to possible health risks that I would argue he has every right to be aware of.
If I was told up front, I'd probably be excited about it. Finding out afterwards would make me lean towards not being able to trust you with my health. The longer it went on behind my back, the less I'd be able to trust you going forward.
Trust is delicate... and a key ingredient to a successful relationship - along with open communication.
If the 3-way that's not going to happen is with the other guy, a 3-way with your bf could work.
Posted: 24 May 16:02