Do you need to stop because you're physically and mentally tired or because you're sore? I'm assuming the first for the following, but if it's the latter, then he needs to improve upon his technique, use more lube, and do more foreplay.
First approach - You can focus on him first, and be relentless! Don't be shy and make sure he knows not to hold back and see how many times you can make him orgasm before he gives up. There are lots of articles here for how to do that. Then, when you're ready, hop on top and go until you're done, and I'm sure he won't get up to do more once you get off(pun not intended but appropriate!).
Second approach - More foreplay where he's close to finishing before even entering you, and afterward he doesn't try to hold back. Many guys will assume that they must always try to last as long as possible so inform him that this isn't necessary. Be sure to communicate what you want!
It is also very important for you to relax and breathe! Tensing up while holding you breath until a big climactic finish will accomplish just that, but if you learn to find a balance with relaxation and breathing during the act you will be able to enjoy many orgasms in a row like rolling with the waves.
I rarely have a refractory period and have yet to encounter a physical time limit to an erection if I don't want it to go down, but if she sets her mind to it she can definitely make the whole rest of my body surrender when it can't see, hear, or stop twitching.
Why settle for one when the two of you could have many?
funinthesun
Posted: 03 Oct 21:17
