OP: creams/remedies to increase physical penis sensitivity?

> Im in my early 20's and masturbating since the age of probably 11~12 almost daily.... Could this be potential nerve problems in my penis from over-masturbation?

A person cannot over masturbate. At some point if you try your body will cry "uncle" and simply refuse to respond for a few hours to a day until it recoups and regroups. As for your thought about masturbating too much over the years, this is just so much hooey. Please consider the other timeline of a man who is in his 70s perhaps and has been enjoying years of climaxes by whatever means for let's say 55 years or so with no problems. I don't buy your notion that in your short active life, climaxing too much by your hand, someone elses, or intercourse is at the heart of your problem.

> Also, due to my inability to stay erect with a woman

Guys loose erections all the time, even right up to and just after beginning intercourse. It's possible that there can be a couple of reasons for this. One is "Performance Anxiety" caused by worry and concern about whatever; the second can be either from moving around causing blood flow to be diverted from the penis as Brandye noted, yesterday; or, just loosing focus for whatever reason.

> Im pretty much willing to do anything to increase the sensitivity of my penis again, and my sex drive so I can have quality sexual relationships with girls and my current girlfriend.

What I get from reading between the lines, above, you do not appear to have a sex drive problem since you are cutting back. I suppose this is Ok if you want to, however, I believe this is at cross purposes. I'd be working on (re)learning how to become aroused, first by yourself, and then with a partner. From what I have read on the subject, spending lots of time becoming aroused is key--even when by yourself. So, you might want to caress and pleasure the rest of your body before actually getting down to business. This is most important when making love with someone.

Use plenty of lube as you have been doing, and just go at things without a sense of urgency. I would urge you not try so hard.* Loosing an erection is not the end of things, think of this as the ability to restart. So, you loose an erection when with your girlfriend, just fall back and have her begin to rebuild it. This should not and must not be such a big deal ego- or emotional- wise.

There is no rule that states a guy has to start hard and remain hard all throughout the couple's lovemaking session. If you loose it, then do what guys say they long for--keeping things going longer. Use this opportunity to keep things going. If you do not greet your partner with an erection, so what, let her generate one and think of the fun of having this happen. If you loose an erection, let her generate one and think of the fun of having this happen. If you want to have a long love making session, keep necking and petting and fooling around.

> Getting Natural medicine to boost sex drive and erection ability (does anyone have reccomendations?)

These herbs may or may not work as each of us responds differently.

> Foreskin resotration

There is at least one website that describes how to do this. If you want to do this, go for it.

> Abstaining as much as possible from Masturbation

Why? I do not see the need. Rent and watch the movie "Forty Days and Forty Nights," staring Josh Hartnett. Cute.

> When I need to masturbate, I will invest into lube and a artificial vagina to dissaciate the need to do it with my hand.

* "Variety is the spice of life." Do it, although, I still suggest just devoting more time to building your arousal and fooling around is a better way to become turned on again.

> Get Viagra to get a long hard erection I seemed to have lost the ability to do

I rather doubt you have ED, and if true, a doctor will probably not prescribe one of these meds.

> ( right now I have to touch my soft penis to get it hard, just enough so I can ejaculate)

Asked and answered.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

dancingdoc2

Posted: 23 Sep 05:24

Well, Doc and I usually agree but I want to caution you on foreskin replacement. I can think of nothing that will do for you. If you are expecting to become more sensitive, forget it. That will not happen. You will increase the opportunity to develop and/or carry STD's. This is most notable in the STD' that do not show in men but cause cervical cancer in women. The operation is neither cheap nor painless. In Europe, you could only have this done in private clinics because no NHS would pay for it. See my sticky on this ofrum about ED drugs; they are not recreational drugs. No, there are no magical creams.

And, by the way, I am not convined that you have jacked yourself into this corner. Talk to a urologist - and then to a sex therapist.

Brandye

Posted: 23 Sep 05:25

Hey,

Don't feel too bad about this--I have a very similar problem. Much of what they say is true. It sounds like you have "Performance Anxiety" and need to spend more time getting aroused.

I'm not sure where you're from, but I know where I'm from. Often times the women we meet have significantly more sexual experience than the men. In fact, every single girl friend of mine has significantly more experience. They are very well versed in their needs, the kinds of guys they want, and this or that. Often times the "fantasies" they have are different than what we actually are.

The best way to handle this IMO is to communicate with your partner and explain. If she doesn't want to help you, then she obviously doesn't love you enough and you should consider someone else.

If you cannot feel comfortable enough to experiment with her sexually to help you become massively aroused and wanting to "**** her brains out", then you probably aren't at the point for sex anyway.

Just be aware that your exact problem is shared with someone else. This is what I've mentally come up for myself.

magamiako

Posted: 23 Sep 05:25

Well I think what most of you guys are saying are very valid, and foreskin restoration is not a surgery Im doing but a procedure that will take some time.

It may be BS but I still think having a healthy head will benefit.

I just remember back to the days then just stroking the penis was good and I'd ejaculate huge loads.

Stroking up and down would be fine but now I just dont feel a thing. Its like my penis is numb.

sidjtd

Posted: 23 Sep 05:25

A foreskin restoration may not restore nerves but it will protect the head of the penis and help prevent further damage. He also said a Foreskin Restoration which is a slow process, not a replacement. Condoms, they are a much better STI prevention method than circumcision. Testing is also a useful thing if your going to enter into a relationship with unprotected sex, another better alternative to circumcision. Reduced chance to develop and/or carry STI's is a lame duck reason to merit circumcision. I find it unfair that you want men to sacrifice something very important for a slightly less chance for a woman to contract cervical cancer. Especially with many easier, not permanent better alternatives. I am not trying to say cervical cancer should not be taken seriously, please do not interpret it that way. There are many, many operations and disorders that NHS do not provide for. NHS are typically quite a ways behind the times.

curly

Posted: 23 Sep 05:25