so how is it that she's teasing? It's rather simple; you enjoy her company with these restrictions and be happy about it. Or you refuse what it is she offers. No-one forced you to sleep in her bed and fool around with her, did they? So don't act like you didn't have a choice.
That said; frustration can feel terrible. But on some levels frustration is something you're going to have to learn to be able to handle. Just like as a toddler you've learned you can't eat candy all day, no matter how much you wanted it. Crying and nagging about it made it more likely to have it denied from you than given. Sexual frustration isn't much different. Just don't go on till the point frustration breaks you in halve. Find the balance between what's good for you and other people. There's nothing wrong with giving into any sexual craving, as long as the other person wants and enjoys it too. Be careful when walking the line you've chosen to walk. There's no need to start getting pushy. Or trying to coheres her into it by advertising yourself as desperate. After all; if she had agreed out of pity, would it really have made you feel better? Or what if she had done this for you and then gotten angry/sad/regretful, would that have made you feel proud? If you have any self-respect and respect her, actually: like her, you won't be able to answer either question with "yes". You say you get along, so go along with it and see where it takes you. It seems to me you're spoiling what you could be enjoying now over something that may happen tomorrow (and you may actually be cheating yourself out of that by behaving the way you do!). The decision is up to you. If you're not willing to do this with her, then find someone else who does want to move at your pace.
Also; sexual frustration is not a guy-thing, I can assure you. Neither are there any guidelines for women to behave before or after losing their virginity. So best to stop thinking in terms of gender and start thinking about being a human being. Even better; start viewing you two as individuals with unique personalities. It is actually rather insulting to assume men can't handle frustrations and are following their dicks instead of using their power of free will, when they have just as perfectly evolved brains as the other 51% of our species.
Hope this helps. Good luck! And don't forget to enjoy yourself! :)
Posted: 08 Oct 22:52