OP: Dark Labia / Lips

Chococat, do not fret about the look of you lips I have seen people with many different kinds. Thick, thin, dark, light. And I can tell you performing oral on each and every one of them was amazing. I loved the different feels, and I was more worried about making them scream (in ectasy lol) rather than how they looked.

If you truly are worried, then just turn off the lights, or put a bllindfold on him. Why? Because if he cant see, not only will you be able to relax, but also he will be forced to lick around in an attempt to locate your clit. Rather than just looking and heading right for it.:)

Ducy

Posted: 23 Sep 23:00

"Pussies" come in all shapes, sizes, and, varieties. There are the Calico, black, gray, yellow, etc. Vulvas are no different. The Asian population is a major portion of the worlds population so I think you'd be in the majority.

As for looks and style, this has to do with heredity, heritage, and, to some extent how much a person does in fact toy with their labia. If you tug and massage them they can become enlarged. If so, so what? If not, so what?

In at least one culture the mothers of young girls purposely massage their child's labia for years in order to make them much larger than normal. This is considered to be a mark of beauty when the time comes for more intimacy.

Your concern about your vulva and it's pieces-parts is no different that boys who worry over the size of their penis and whether or not it is adequate.

This is what is important: When a guy becomes enamored with a young lady he pretty much commits to accepting her completely--including the places not yet seen. Guys pretty much like all vulvas, regardless. Lastly, please read the articles listed in the Index:

Regardless of age and/or experience, there is something in those articles for everybody. The focus of the penis article is not about size, shape, or looks; rather, in the owner operator knowing how to use it. The same goes for the woman. I recommend that the two of you explore and learn together. Focus on what is important because making love is not about what we do to each other; it is what we do with an for each other. Learn the how-to's and the two of you should be remarkable lovers.

dancingdoc2

Posted: 23 Sep 23:00

Your color is most likely related to your ethic background; however, the color is not significant! Vulva's are all sorts of colors! Don't concern yourself with it.

Ducy...remember the exterior is the VULVA...need to go back to A&P again??? Interior is the Vagina!

sera300

Posted: 23 Sep 23:00

First, use a search engine and enter "female sexual anatomy" to see and learn what you have. Then read around here and see what is said about taste and smell. We women drain constantly - some a little and some a lot. A thorough wahsing twice a day is needed for most of us and often a touch-up when we are getting involved. Avoid douching.

There are great variations in how we are made although we all have about the same stuff. The specific coloration varies with ethnicity, age and whether or not we have had children. There is no reason to think you are abnormal, but we all have doubts about ourselves! If you are clean and confident, most men will be more than happy with what you have.

Brandye

Posted: 23 Sep 23:00

1. dark color- not a problem any more than the color of your eyes, skin or hair. I would estimate that at least 85% of all women on the planet have dark labia minora so that makes you extremely normal in that aspect.

2. You are Asian. No problem. Asia accounts for over 60% of the world population with almost 3,800,000,000 people. Again you are in the majority.

3. Your labia are long and thick. No problem, unless this causes you physical discomfort. Personally I find large labia exciting. Many, many other men do too. There are publications and websites dedicated to photos of large labia because men like them. You have large labia for the same reason some people have large feet or noses or ears- it has nothing to do with masturbation.

4. The only problem you have is that you are insecure about the visual aspect of your genitalia. You should be more concerned about having a firm PC muscle and learning techniques to put your vagina and those big lips to good use.

dlb

Posted: 23 Sep 23:01

I have never seen a pussy that I did not think was beautiful. I don’t think color matters at all, light or dark it dose not matter. As for the labia minora being long, unless they hang down like two inches, I really could care less. The only thing that would make me stop is if I saw some kind of infection that she did not warn me about. As long as you have good hygiene, I would not worry. Trust me, he will love what he sees.

Mr. Saint

Posted: 23 Sep 23:01

your replies make me feel better about myself. I had a great time last night with him. Since i am still a virgin and want to keep it until we get married so we didnt have sex yet, just made out on the couch. he gave me an orgasm last night. a lot of people say it feels really good, but to me, it kinda hurts a little bit when he licked the lips but somehow i felt good. Can anybody tell me why? Is it because I have long, thick lips? or is it because I have been masterbating for many years and lacking sensitiness down there? what can i do now? i really dot want to ruin the night with him so sometime i have to lie to him that it feels great.

chococat

Posted: 23 Sep 23:01

Well, if you are 27, you really should be discussing this with your Gyn doctor.

sera300

Posted: 23 Sep 23:02

DONT LIE!!! EVER!!!

Just tell him no try her or something like that. It is true that masturbation could really desensitize you after years and years and years but I dont know what you mean when you said it hurt when he licked your lips.

Like each like felt painful as in stinging or piercing? Or just felt extremely sensitive

Ducy

Posted: 23 Sep 23:02

> Like each like felt painful as in stinging or piercing? Or just felt extremely sensitive

This is an important question because as a woman becomes extremely aroused it is not unusual for the clitoris to become too sore to touch. For women, this sensation happens just prior to the triggering of a climax; for men, the soreness and pain happen immediately after. The pain while real enough is caused by the release of a chemical by the brain and is not in response to any injury. The sensations are temporary and will subside in minutes. Of course it is possible to rub too much too hard and cause injury. Fellas know all too well what happens when they rub the shaft of their penis to vigorously for too long, particularly if the rubbing involves a "hot spot"!

As for making love and having encountering a sensitive clitoris, it is recommended to change tactics. Instead of rubbing it directly, fold the inner lips over it and massage it indirectly through them. This should make the situation better, particularly if she is on the verge and struggling to have an orgasm.

dancingdoc2

Posted: 23 Sep 23:02