"I just want to know why he feels the need to do this?"
The only way you will truly know the answer to this quetion is to ask him. Neither you nor the people in this community can truely tell you what he is thinking or what he feels. Ask him. Maybe start by saying what you feel and then explain that you would like to better understand what he is feeling and why he is doing this.
"i mean do guys not feel sharing such intimate pics is wrong esp when u have a girlfriend."
I am a girl and I don't feel there is anything wrong with this other than the fact that it is hurting you. I am married and my husband and I occasionally exchange naked pictures with others. When we were in CanCun, Mexico last year we even took naked pictures with a neighbor in our hotel, a stranger who was taking naked pictures next door.
"if i make him so happy why does he feel the need to share such private stuff w/ other girls he doesn't know"
No one can get all their needs met by one person. It would not be fair to you or to him if you tried or expected to meet all his needs. This is one of the big reasons relationships fail, this unrealistic expectation that one "other" can meet all of anothers needs. I noticed you started this stament with IF, maybe you need to talk with him about whether or not you are meeting his needs and IF there is anything that either of you can do to better meet both of your needs.
"i gave that up. i dont really know what exactly my question is i just need some insite on this. should i feel jealous, threatened, worried? or is this just all part of a males healthy sex life? please help?"
Feelings are very personal. No one here can tell you what you should feel. Instead I would encourage you to discover and work through what you do feel. It sounds like this situation hurts you at least a little and that maybe you are even a little angry. It also sounds like because you "gave that up" you just expected that he would also. Again you are falling into the relationship myth of believing that someone will
automatically change because of they are now in a relationship with you.
"he's mentioned many times b4 that his past girlfriends cheated on him and that is something that he doesn't tolerate at all so i never thought that id have to worry about that esp from his side of the relationship."
It sounds like you feel that he is cheating on you. Maybe he does not thing that he is cheating on you and is unaware that you consider this cheating.
"i would confront him more about stuff but technically im really snooping where i dont belong and him knowing this would probaly just make things worse"
If you don't talk to him the situation will get worse anyway because of the negative feeling you are already having. I would suggest starting the conversation by admitting that you were wrong for snooping but that you would like to talk about this anyway because it is [hurting/angering/suprizing whatever word goes best] you.
I think you need to admit to yourself how you feel and then talk to him about it. Focus on what you feel as opposed to what he did wrong so that he won't feel like he is being attacked.
Posted: 30 Sep 22:58