OP: I'm a straight guy, but i like dick...

It could very well be that you're into women both physically and emotionally - and men, only physically; but haven't you ever considered the possibility of going all the way with another guy, relationship and all? Many individuals struggle with issues of self-image and Self-esteem, spending enormous amounts of time and emotional energy trying to become something they're not, rather than figuring out who they actually are; and it sounds like you're struggling with the very same thing.

A lot of people feel that their sexual behavior has to conform to a set of norms that their community or peers dictate. Some pretend to act ‘normal’ - or rather, what they think normal is supposed to be - and in denying their true needs and desires, they end up in a constant struggle with themselves. But the truth of the matter is that anyone who professes there is only one kind of acceptable norm, probably doesn't know what it's like to want acceptance but be denied for being who they are. Your particular makeup may not be like your next door neighbors, but you're definitely not "the only one" that feels the way you do.

Instead of succumbing to the pressure of assuming a role or sexual identity you're uncomfortable with, why not embrace who you really are - or at the very least, get a sense of who it is you're working with?

By allowing yourself the opportunity to explore the vast possibilities your sexuality has to offer, you'll be more apt to uncover more about who you're attracted to, to what extent, and why. You're also likely to meet people who can shed some light on the feelings you're experiencing and provide support for the mixed emotions you're feeling. Check out Sexual Orientation for more.

There's nothing wrong with being straight, gay, bi or whatever. There is also nothing wrong with being unclear about your sexual orientation. You ultimately decide what is best for you, whether that's being with men, women - or both, but you have to be the one that's comfortable with it. Let yourself live openly and with dignity; the more you allow yourself to live without the burden of secrecy, the more liberated and more ‘yourself’ you will feel.

Posted: 17 Aug 20:02

I'm a male, love women and have a girlfriend. But I've been having fantasies about sucking a guy's dick. There's no attraction to men, just the oral thing. I told my girlfriend about it and it turned her on. For a couple days after I told her, we were looking for a guy that would f*** her and let me suck him. (we also have a thing about wanting to watch the other f*** someone else) but I was wondering if there are any guys out there that feel like this too. So what's everyone got to say?

chaoticdreamz

Posted: 02 Oct 19:32

Hi:

I have had MANY MFM 3ways and they can be INCREDIBLY HOT! I get very turned on seeing my partner with another person (someone i trust and safe sex of course).

First things first...you are VERY lucky to have found a girlfriend that no only is understanding of your bisexual fantasies, but is open enough sexually to engage in exploring the things you posted about!

Now, that said, all you have to really do is keep communicating about your fantasies both before and after you act on them!

BE VERY CAREFUL of meeting folks online. Make sure you both agree about the kind of 3rd you want..and make SURE you have a bi guy....TONS of men will saythey are bi in hopes of getting to f*** your GF first and then not have to suck you!

Make sure he's really bi! Meet him at a coffee shop or a bar..not your home! Make sure he sends you several recent pics of his face and body (if he dosn't have pics, thats a warning sign,..if he only has cock and body pics, be careful that they may NOT really be of him).

Make sure you both play safe! Rememeber, when you bring in a stranger..u bring in his last dozen sexual partners!

Rawbob

Posted: 02 Oct 19:32

I'm a straight guy who's a little bi-curious. I do have an attraction to men very much. I enjoy looking at nude men and gay porn all the time.

-I want to have sex with muscular athletic men.

-I would also like to have sex with crossdressing men who dress up in women's clothing. Men in women's clothes is very hot for me and a huge turn on. People find men wearing women's clothes is sick and disgusting but I find nothing wrong with it. I've worn women's clothing many times in my own privacy though to fantasize with for fun, but I would never go out in public like that though. It feels hot to wear nothing but bra and panties, and it's great for masturbating fun.

-I want to get into a bi-sexual threesome. So chaoticdreams, if you lived near me, I'd be all in to join you two. So you are more than welcome to blow me while I make out with your girlfriend. but would you think that the guy would want his turn to blow you too? Just a thought.

Greendale

Posted: 02 Oct 19:32