So... If she is just shy about it, I would recommend finding 3-5 good videos on one of the porn tube sites that you can either let her watch to study on her own, or together. There are also some full length videos on the market that demonstrate a lot of ideas to get someone started... Nina Hartley might be a good starting point.
On the other hand, if she's just selfish and pretending to be shy, then it falls backs on behaviour patterns. You have been rewarding her bad behaviour to the point that she just pushes you down there... while copping out when it's her turn to reciprocate. If this is the case, I would cut her off of all oral and sex until she gets over her princess mentality. Take care of business on your own, and don't make it a secret that you're doing it.
Lastly, some people just really don't like to give oral. If she is one of those people, then you have to ask yourself how important having it in your life is... and then figure out your options for going forward.
Posted: 16 Mar 08:09