I'd imagine that other than the actual intercourse, everything else for lesbian couples would/could be exactly the same. But I'm a heterosexual male, so my opinion isn't exactly well-informed.
Andy
Posted: 30 Sep 06:05
OP: Do lesbians miss penis?
Why are some women gay? Don't they get more satisfaction from men having their vagina filled with the real thing? I guess I understand the loving thing from a women - she know how it feels- call me old fashioned I can't stand gays/lesbians. That dog won't hunt for me.
vette1963
Posted: 30 Sep 06:05
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Yes, vette, I am bi-. I also have dual citizenship!Irrelevant but it keeps thing balanced.
My g/f and I have known each other our entire lives starting on a small island in the Hebrides. We planned our own defloration and, with my sister's help, prepared and seduced our boyfriends the same night when we were fifteen. We discovered that the sex was not all that great. As we discussed that, we began to demonstrate what we wished "he" would do. Fill in the blank.
We went to separate universities and each had various affairs. I went to med school in another country and lived with a guy the whole time. During advanced training in Canada I fell in love with a wonderful Croatian colleague. We were planning marriage when he died in Kosovo. She married and had a son and then a nasty divorce.
We rediscovered each other and have been "together" ever since. We are each bi- and each have a need for a penis several times a year. We have rules and that is a protected part of our lives.
The lesbian love is more relaxed and intuitive. We understand what movements are seeking; tender breasts or cramps can be identified with. The clear goal of my vagina that is always present in straight sex is not there. We linger and enjoy.
I do feel uncompleted. There is nothing like a penis in me. And there is the biological function - the vagina has as its only purpose holding a penis until it empties. There is psychological satisfaction in having those millions and millions of sperm swimming around in me.
Possibly half the women in the world have had at least one lesbian-like contact. Because women are the majority, some have no other sex life. Some of us like both.
We are no threat to straights and we do not recruit. We are simply sexual beings handling that as we find adequate. This is a sevuality forum and gays, bi-s and, even, celibates are sexual beings as much as straights.
Some people think I sin with a woman; some, with a man. They still bring their daughters to me for their first gyn exam and my locally famaous "talk."
Be kind
Brandye
Posted: 30 Sep 06:06
Brandye,
Excellent post. I'm sorry that i don't share the whole lesbian/ gay thing. I do however respect your honesty and views even though i may not agree with them. iI never ment to be unkind maybe unclear is the term. since you hadposted you were bi. i was looking for some guidance to help me understand. Anyway glad you are here and i'll try to be gentle unless somebody really pisses me off. By the way I can't believe the kids on this sight. not young adults KIDS. Are we helping or hindering them. lot of theses subjects should be discussed with their parents or older brothers and sisters.That's my story and i'm sticking to it.
vette1963
Posted: 30 Sep 06:06
Brandye, that was an excellent post. It was quite insightful, and I really appreciate your being a part of this forum.
By the way, I plan to go into medicine, (pediatrics) myself, and my girlfriend is planning to be a GYN.
Andy
Posted: 30 Sep 06:06
Thanks for the support, guys. That is the way it is.
Vette, I agree with you on whom the kids should be speaking with. Cetainly the teen pregnancy rates for your country indicate they are speaking to no one and taking unnecessary risks. We in the UK do not do very good job either although sex ed is mandatory but usually taught by some ass who never got beyond jacking off.
I am seeing this board as an extension of the part of my practice I enjoy the most - helping the young (especially women) enjoy their bodies without messing them up too badly.
Hugs to all
Brandye
Posted: 30 Sep 06:06
I am addicted to watching lesbian porn...where two sexy lesbos do fingering and fuck each other's hole and reach to the highest orgasms... that makes me horny...i always watch these videos at the best lesbian porn sites http://goodpornsites.net/category/lesbian/
Posted: 28 Jun 07:44