I guess i'm struggling with your question too. When i get erect, i get ERECT. Depending on how many times i have cum that day, my cock can go from ROCK HARD, to the consistency of a refrigerated stick of butter (sorry, it's the best i could come up with, but you get the picture).
Do get fully erect when you masturbate? When are you NOT fully erect. Based on your other post, i think u are referring to not being fully erect prior to intercourse...and like oberon said, thats pretty common to have "stage fright" Hey, anxiety is tough to deal with...especially when you think "how do i measure up in her mind."
To help you jump start things, you might want to try some "tactle" ideas to help you get fully hard. Besides stroking your cock, try having HER lightly lick, kiss or pinch your nipples. If you're alone, do it yourself - no one said the ladies have the market cornered on nipple play. You can also try playing gently with your balls or have her run her hands over them. And finally, if you can get her, (or yourself) to rub your "taint" ..thats the area between your balls and anus...it's very sensative, and acutaly part of the who strucutre of the penis!
Hope this helps!
Posted: 01 Oct 00:01