Dude, what's with the attitude? She sat there and said that women have short canals, not short cervixes. But yet you come back and snap at her like she didn't answer your question when she did?
Fine, I'll say it all again, in my own words.
As she said, there's really no such thing as a "shorter cervix", so please, get that out of your brain.
It's her canal that's short.
I have a short canal. I have a narrow canal. Penetrating me usually causes pain, ESPECIALLY from behind. However, the more turned on I am, the more I am able to accept the penis or the vibrator or whatever.
I have found that astroglide works wonders for me. It lessens the pain and allows a deeper penetration.
I would say that over time, generally the vagina gets used to being expanded and doesn't hurt when it's stretched but after a year and a half in your case, I guess you could say that's not gonna happen.
So, the only thing I, and probably most other people on here can tell you, is you're just going to have to stick with the "missionary" thing. If that's what works for her without pain, then that's what works.
While it is nice to change it up and spice it up some, from someone who has experienced pain before during sex, I'd much rather be in the same position without pain than try other ways and experience pain.
thetease13
Posted: 02 Oct 20:01