OP: bisexual in the closet

I'm not bisexual, but from my point of view you should not worry to much, in this days people are more open to accept the sexuality of other people. Yeah, some people may raise an eyebrow, and some others look shocked at the beginning when you tell them, but your true friends will accept you
and stand by your side regardless of your sexual preference, because they will understand that you are the same nice person.
If you take some time to read, you will find that there are many bi people here in the forum, and they all enjoy sex the same way as any other people.
Well i hope they can give you a better answer. C ya

Tjdude

Posted: 30 Sep 05:04

Hi Penny:
If you are seeing a psychologist, you should talk to him/her about this. Repressing feelings are NEVER a good thing.

You need to talk to someone who can listen and help you explore your feelings.

When you say you're secretly bisexual, does that mean you HAVE been with women before or it's something you feel inside?

Rawbob

Posted: 30 Sep 05:04

I have been actively bisexual more than half my life. I am not open about this but I am certain that there is some awareness among family, co-workers and, even, some patients. Be pleased to know that female bisexuality is more common and more accepted than you think. Talk to your thereapist; she can give more specifics.

Brandye

Posted: 30 Sep 05:05

Hi there
I am not bisexual, however I have many friends that are bisexual or homosexual, and I have been active in GSA (Gay/Straight Alliance). I am sorry that you feel afraid to tell the people that you are close to that you are bisexual. In today's society, yes, some people are still going to not be cool with that idea...but people are going to not be cool with pretty much everything out there. I hope that you can find the strength to talk to someone about this. That will probably make you feel a lot better about it. Talking to your psychologist will probably be very helpful, since that should be confidential. Then you can work up the courage to tell your family, who can help you out emotionally a lot. I hope that things work out for you. Just remember that you don't have to please everyone, just make sure that you are happy and comfortable with how your life is going.

Keylime83

Posted: 30 Sep 05:05

Thank you very much to everyone who replyied to my post, it gave me the strength to tell someone, and now a huge weight has been lifted, I told my best friend and she replied with the most un-expected answer and that was the she was also bi and had had 2 girl/girl relationships. Our whole big conversation ended with a sexy-pash !!!

Thanks again

Penny

Posted: 30 Sep 05:05

Pennylane, good for you. I have been openly bi since I was 14. It never occured to me to hide it, but I understand certain things can get in the way. So glad you told some one tho. Theres nothing to be ashamed of, be proud of yourself for embracing your feelings.

Junocozmos

Posted: 30 Sep 05:06

I'm a 49 year old male and I've spent 35 of them repressing my bisexuality. I never did anything about it for fear of being branded a fag/queer/homo by others, but more importantly, by myself.

I'm happy to report that I'm over it now. I'm me. period. It took a serious illness to make me realize that you're only here for a short time and you have to be honest with your self and loved ones in order to be truly happy.

I've since told my wife that I was always curious about sex with other men. I wondered what it would be like to suck off a guy. Guess what? She thinks it's hot! We've incorporated a strap on dildo into our lovemaking. She's really fired up when she gets a chance to turn the tables on me!

We now intend to bring an online male friend of hers into our bedroom. I'll get my chance to satisfy my curiousity. Will that make me a fag/queer/homo? No. Will that make me a bisexual? No. I'll be me.

hanksnow

Posted: 30 Sep 05:07