OP: Are some women unable to orgasm?

Women's orgasm is irrelevant to nature while the man's is necessary to propogate the species. Orgasm/ejaculation is almost automatic in the male but not in the female. We must actually learn.

Because of what we are taught or threatened with (nice girls do not touch themselves down there!), many women begin to see sex as bad or threatening or something to be done for the man. As a result, many women never expect to have an orasm and, by god, they do not. Others who try experience failure many times over and eventually give up. Sexual abuse (about twenty percent of all women have been abused) turns many off to the point where sex is only necessary to become a mother. Some who experience vaginismus early, never quite overcome the fear that it will return.

There is some small percentage of women who are physiologically unable to attain orgasm but the vast majority can - if they learn how. Some of us are built such that the proper parts are not easily titillated; others they are too exposed. And many a woman gets so fed up with having her clitoris pounded by a klutz she simply does not want it.

We do know that the earlier a woman begins to masturbate, the more satisfactory her sex life will be later. Rather than encouraging playing with ourselves, we are actually told it is evil to pleasure ourselves. The same thing happens to boys but when enough semen gets backlogged, it comes bursting out while sleeping. Most young men learn that they do not have to wait for nature and figure out how to do it for themselves. There is no such imperative for women and many simply do not know what an orgasm is. I have had several patients in their 30s (and one who was 54) experience orgasm for the first time. This says, keep on trying. The best training for orgasm is done alone and many young women simply do not discover this. I think female masturbation should be part of the health or sex ed curriculum. Try telling a bunch of uptight religious that!

Great question never asked here before. Thanks for asking!

Brandye

Posted: 23 Sep 23:22

Yea some women physically incapable of having an orgasm, but some of them just need special diets and supplements which increase sexual drive. I started having orgasms after the course of Sentia pills. Others just need good partners...

NEVAEHWWW

Posted: 23 Sep 23:22

Caution: some very few women are physically incapable of having orgasm. Oftimes a rather minor surgical procedure could correct this. Most do not have orgasm because they have long been frustrated and have simply given up on trying. The oldest patient I have encountered to experience her first orgasm was 54; several have been women in their thirties. We do have to learn how!

Sentia may work for some. Whether it actually works or there is a placebo effect is not known. While most of the herbs contained are linked to sexual satisfaction in folklore, there have been no clinical trials that show an actual effect. Some of the contents are used as diuretics or laxatives by herbalists. These are known to work - but for something quite different!

Brandye

Posted: 23 Sep 23:22

Images of someone having their first orgasm.......and bowel movement at the same time come to mind.

funinthesun

Posted: 23 Sep 23:22