Even in extreme cases, going on or off hormonal birth control will not cause weight gain or physical issues to the extent you describe. And you are well beyond the "after effects" of having been on the pill. I advise a marriage counselor in response to your other post. Now, I add a personal counselor to sort out what is going on. This, after a complete gyn workup as Evil suggests above. I do this with the same sense of urgency she has.
You are talking multiple stressors in your life, some of which should be change for the better. Still stressors.
1. Make an appointment with your gyn for a COMPLETE workup.
2. Make an appointment with a counselor to sort out your own issues.
3. When indicated by personal counseling, see a marriage therapist with your husband.
Brandye
Posted: 23 Sep 09:03