I am 17 and I've been dating my girlfriend (also 17) for a year and a half now, we are sexuallly active, but we it's really hard for us to have any decent sexual activity because my parents are always around, I don't think we've had a chance to have sex for over a month now.
How do you people handle situations like these?
(oh, and my gf is scarred to do sneaky stuff when my parents are home...even if their downstairs and we're in my room...and I don't think I can just close and lock my door )
Ragnarok
Posted: 01 Oct 21:46
some people suggested taking advantage of the outdoors by going camping or just down to a lake/park.
some also said going to a friends house.
what about her house?
i dunno, i mean there were always times when my parents were gone. like to work or something??
demonbuttercup
Posted: 01 Oct 21:46
Well let me tell you its not that fun for the parent to have a kid in their house morning, noon and night.
My kid is 12 and home for the summer. She is fighting with her cousin and her best friend is gone for a month.
There is no school so she doesn't go to bed early.
Now you tell me what is a mom to do???
Tessie
Posted: 01 Oct 21:47
LOL
tessie
i guess kids don't want to think about it going both ways huh?
parents don't do that kind of stuff anymore? do they? lol
demonbuttercup
Posted: 01 Oct 21:47
Well, I do go to school you know, but we if she's over here, that would of meant its after school hours and my parents would be home from work soon after, and the only way she could get here is (or i could get there) is for a parent to drive us, cause we're losers and we don't have cars
do you people do some crazy sneak tatic sex thing?
Ragnarok
Posted: 01 Oct 21:47
well i just figured you'd be out of school for summer.
don't you have friends that have cars??
ive never done anything sneaky so i don't know. plus you said she wasn't into that.
so im no help lol
demonbuttercup
Posted: 01 Oct 21:47
I was tempted to joke, "Gee, people actually have sex more than once a month?"
Something doesn't sound quite right here... you never go on dates? You're both 17... neither of you ever borrow the family car? You never go for long walks alone? You never go to any after school activities?
I don't remember any magic sneaky tricks... but if two people want to be alone, they usually find a way. I'd also add that if your gf is not comfortable when parents are around, you need to respect that.
I also think when kids live under their parents roof, well... some lack of privacy and opportunity is the price you pay for being a kid. It probably feels very unfair, but as Tess points out... it's a two-way street!
WallyLlama
Posted: 01 Oct 21:48
Of course we go on dates, but it's not like we care about having sex when we're eating dinner or watching a movie out, I'm just refering to time spent at each other houses.
Oh, actually, we're bigger losers, we don't have our license yet
Ragnarok
Posted: 01 Oct 21:48
yeah i suggest you guys work on getting a license and a car rather than the whole sex thing...lol. i mean come on!
i was driving when i was 15 got my license my 16th birthday. i couldn't wait. not that i had many places to go, but the option was always there. even just to go to my friends house or to the mall.
w/ a car you always have a bedroom on wheels..lol.
demonbuttercup
Posted: 01 Oct 21:48
