OP: Lesbian sex - what's it like? - should I?

Lesbian sex - what's it like? - should I?
If you've read my other threads so far, you have an idea of my situation....

I'm still a virgin, but I'm really interested in my current girlfriend. And since I'm still learning about the fact that I'm bi (and I'm unsure whether I'm a lesbian or not because I've never been attracted to a man), I'm wondering what it feels like to have sex with another woman.

1. How does it feel when she licks you..... down there?
2. Other than the licking thing, what else is there (if it's just the tongue, it sounds kind of boring)
3. Can you catch STD's from lesbian sex?
4. Since I've only been with my gf for less than a month, should I go for it? (I know she wants me).

Posted: 30 Sep 07:14

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I'll try 2 and 3.
What else there is is limited only by your imagination. Generally, women are more cuddly and aware of one another's response than men are. It can be very pleasant for those of us who like it; it could be, at best, a big nothing for women not into one another.

STDs are a real danger with lesbian sex - if the women involved sleep around. Generally, lesbian relationships are more stable than gay male relationships but not always entirely so. When you meet new women, there are the same risks as with any sexual relationship. Body fluids are the medium of exchange of STDs and any time this exchange takes place, there are risks.

Many women (I believe a majority) do have some curiousity regarding sex with other women. Studies in girls' schools indicate a higher than expected level of sexual behaviour among the students. More recent studies have found a surprising incidence of outside female relationships among married women. How much of the curiousity is turnd into action, no one knows but it is hardly an unnatural curiousity. Whether or not any one woman should should explore is up to her.

Brandye

Posted: 30 Sep 07:14


I have never been too far with a girl, but I know some info as to what else you can do besides licking.

There is scissoring.....the scissors being your legs and you basically rub your geneitals together.

There are also a lot of toys and fingering just like with heterosexual relationships.

And its not just licking there is sucking and biting and hard rubbing. Most women get off from clitorial stimulaiton anyways, hence why lesbian sex is satisfying.

michelle2004

Posted: 30 Sep 07:15


Perhaps, michelle, but many of us simply find women to be more intuitive and knowledgeable lovers. Besides, no one's virility is challenged simply because we want to make love and the orgasm is not necessary.

Brandye

Posted: 30 Sep 07:15


1. This is kind of subjective, as I'm sure the way your partner touches you, with any body part, will highly depend on the partner. I've had a few, and no other female, or male has ever sent jolts through my body the way my girlfriend does. It's the most amazing feeling in the world.

2. There's a lot of things lesbians can do besides oral. My girlfriend really enjoys strattling one of my legs (tribadism) and me rubbing her clit w/ my leg until she cums. It's actually quite enjoyable. Not all women can orgasm this way though. I personally, can't get off this way. I typically need more stimulation. It gets me hot and bothered, but to finish the job, she normally ends up going down on me or fingering me, or using a strap on.

3. You run some of the same risks as straight sex. If you know your parter well, you should feel more comfortable, but always take precautions.

4. That's really a question you and your girlfriend have to answer. If it's something you are comfortable with, go for it. If she's someone you could see yourself with for a long time, make it memorable. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and for the first few weeks of our relationship, we teased eachother incessantly, texts, IMs, pics, quick fingerings (with clothes on), here and there, until one weekend, we got a hotel room. I could hardly keep from ripping her clothes off before we were even in the door. The first time she went down on me, I was a little nervous, but it was extacy. She was amazing. We had the whole weekend, and that first night, we had sex on and off for 14 straight hours (between showers and eating). Point is, we never even left the room.

If you dig her a lot, make it special. You won't regret it. Thinking about our first sex romp together still sends tingles up my spine. We actually are getting a room at that same hotel for our anniversary this summer. ;)

mac_chick

Posted: 30 Sep 07:15


1. How does it feel when she licks you..... down there?
Obviously it feels good my dear....:D
Where do I begin. Fist off you have to consider the mental aspect of it. I am a bisexual woman and I love being with both men and women but I do prefer women. That is just my personal attraction. I find women just a little more attractive.;) That's what it boils down to. If you aren't attracted to the person you are with then whether he or she is going down on you won't matter. You know?

2. Other than the licking thing, what else is there (if it's just the tongue, it sounds kind of boring)
Oh oh oh darling sometimes just the tongue can be VERY good. Again it just boils down to how your body responds to the touches, licks, caresses, etc. If you are comfortable you can use toys such as vibrators or strap ons. You can role play do many things. It's all about your comfort level and what turns you on.

3. Can you catch STD's from lesbian sex?
Many of my friends have asked me this and I will say it again and again. Yes. It is very possible and easy. Sex is sex. STDs are transmitted through vaginal cum just the same as a man's. There are safe sex practices that can be used if you like. It's always good to get tested at least twice a year if you are sexually active with multiple partners. Even once a year if you are in a relationship, some STDs take years to surface. (not to scare you) But its just a good thing to get in the habit of.

4. Since I've only been with my gf for less than a month, should I go for it? (I know she wants me).
You let this happen when you want to. No matter how much she wants it. It's about when you both want it to happen. Just let it happen. Don't plan it out. Go with the flow. It's so much more satisfying when it just happens when you are both ready. Sexy and passionate. I'm sure you will know when the time is right but never rush yourself.

I hope I could help and that this post isn't to late haha!

Good luck with what ever you choose my dear.

Always remember do what feels right and keep loving who you want to love.

Cheers.

SickHypnotic

Posted: 30 Sep 07:15


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