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You cannot avoid the dripping. The semen, about 14ml or 1 Tablespoon, is ejaculated in a glob. It immediately begins to become liquid and will be completely liquid in 15 minutes or so. This makes it easier for the sperm to swim away. About half the semn is absorbed through the woman's vaginal walls and about half leaks out. There are up to 400 million sperm in each ejaculation so losing a few makes little difference.
This liquifying semen is responsible for the infamous "wet-spot" and can tickle and itch as it flows down the woman's crack and thighs. The best solution is to keep a stack of finger towels by the bed. It takes only a quick wipe to get in cuddling mode. One can be left in the "crack" as the drainage can continue for hours. This is one reason I do not like morning sex. I drain into my knickers all morning and need to change them. I hate to use panti-liners.
When it comes time to keep the sperm inside her for pregnancy, she should be on her back with legs raised; you withdraw slowly and carefully and she remain with her knees raised for twenty minute or so. This assures that her cervix is bathed in sperm giving them access to her uterus and then fallopian tubes.
Brandye
Posted: 03 Oct 21:10