What do gay fantasies mean?

....not have actual sex with a real man?

To make my post clearer for better understanding, does it make a straight guy "bi" when he enjoys looking at nude male model pictures and enjoys watching gay porn? In other words, they are attracted to men very secretly and privately but would never ever have actual sex with them?

I don't see how that makes men automattically gay just because they enjoy seeing nude males and watch gay porn and not have sex with them if you know what I mean. I think it just makes them a little "bi-curious". As a private fantasy for them that they would not let the whole world to know.

What makes men gay/bi is having actual sexual relations with the same sex. But fantasizing about them privately doesn't make you gay I don't think. Of course, that's just the way I see it.

I don't know if this topic belongs in this forum but a moderator can feel free to move it to the correct forum if he/she feels that this thread doesn't belong in the "New To Sex" forum.

Feel free to discuss your opinion on this. Thanks. BTW, I'm a new member here, and I do have many questions to get off my chest, but I will make a few new posts at a time, not a lot.

Greendale