our first time was the first time, ever, for me without a condom. trust me id love to go bear back all the time, but its not worth the stress, and i cant expect her to take the morning after pill evrytime we dont use a condom. the statistics arent good enough for me and my gf. sex isnt the most important part of our relationshp, but it is an important one. and i,we, are limited to share our intamacey for fear of her falling pregnant. she says the condoms i use dont hurt her, but i know otherwise, i can see im hurting her. after a while of penatration its as though everything dries up, and dry latex in a dry vagina can not be that comfortable. i dont know what else to say but this is really troubling me, its easy to put full trust in the pill, but pregnancy is not an option for, both of us. if the pill was 100% guarenteed, this wouldnt be an issue. shes prepared to have an abortion if she should fall pregnant, but seeing as im also accountable if that should happen, im not prepared to let her go through that if i can help it. there is no guarentee that the procedure wont leave damage both physically and emotionaly. i think i should do more research on her condition.
thanx for the help, your concern is appreciated.
Posted: 28 Sep 00:29