My girlfriend just told me something I can't just put in the back of my head...
I am 16, she is 14, her brother is 19...
When she was 8, her parents would leave her older brother, at the time he was 13, to babysit her. He is a big kid... He over powered her, he raped her... For almost 2 years. No one else knows. I haven't met him in person, he is a f*** up, has alot of enemies... Luckily... But eventually I will have to meet him.
But one thing, both me and her kinda want to know. I could care less, but just... yeah... She gave her virginity to me. I didn't pressure her, i'm not like that. Although she was raped, it was involuntary. Like, would it still be considered, although technically she wasn't a virgin, it was something she was forced to do. I don't mean to come off as an ass, just...
I'm sorry, but i'm so just, words can't even begin to describe the anger I have right now. I love her, with all my heart, and hearing this, just... Hell, imagine your one and only true love telling you this?
I dono, I had to get this off my chest, and you guys have always been helpfull to so many others on this board.
Please, don't go saying that a 14 and 16 year old can't be in love, when you know, you know... My brother married his GF he had since he was 15, my cousin his since 16, my parents started going out when they were 13... I love her, she loves me... I hate this son of a bitch who did this to her.
Rorance
Posted: 01 Oct 22:12
Remember, this happened a few years ago... she's coped with it in her own way for all that time.
Changing the way she deals with it may take some time.
As I've tried to suggest, you both have to be "ready" for the next step you select together. It's not wrong to give her a little time...
WallyLlama
Posted: 01 Oct 22:17
