i very RARELY can climax from sex and when it happens i am happy but if it doesn't no big deal for me. we basically do 69 that way its exciting to both of us and most of the time I get off that way. He has learned by MY signs and getting off orally is a big thing for me so I made sure he knew how to do it, hes a pro now. Maybe sit down and talk to her see how she feels. If it doesn't bother her then just enjoy the sex! If I can't climax and my hubby tries and I just KNOW its not happeneing I tell him to forget it, sometimes it bothers him but I am also On anti-depressants and THAT does get in the way at times, I do at times have a VERY hard time finishing, but thankfully he is patient, lol. there could be alot of reasons for it.
Posted: 23 Sep 20:58