been there.....my parents, well my mom moreso than my dad is like that.....anyway, everytime i would bring my wife (at that time gf) to my parents house (they don't live here where i live), we weren't allowed to sleep in the same room and we had to show alot of respect.....and i would never bring up sex to my mom, even though i knew she knew.....i just had to let her know that i'm with her for the right reasons.......as for my wife's parents, they were the complete opposite.....they already assumed that we were having sex and they were really open about it....plus we're grown in our 20's, i have a good job and they already knew that i would take care of they're daughter, so they welcomed me with open arms.....but in the beginning, with my wife's parents, i slept in another room out of respect
How did it work for us??
What you do in you're relationship is YOUR business!! What happens if you marry this girl and you have other people deciding the fate of your marriage? You don't want that, so some things are for you and your "significant other" to know. But in the meantime, you still show respect to her parents as well as yours.
Let your girlfriend handle her parents and you handle yours. If she really loves you, she won't let her parents come in between you and her. And if you're a good man to their daughter and show that you can be that man to take care of her for the rest of her life, how can they hate you? That's if you are looking/found your wife.... Besides the fact, why would you discuss sex with them anyway?
Posted: 09 Oct 03:26