I couldn't have said it better myself; having a vaginal orgasm, or G-spot as it's otherwise known, is an amazing experience. This is both exciting and unexplored territory, and despite the fact that you came across it quite unexpectedly, you've been able to experience firsthand the body's incredible capacity for pleasure; it'll be a fun road ahead. Nevertheless, the arrival of these highly elusive Orgasms has generated some new questions and concerns.
Although your boyfriend played a big part in helping you reach the big 'O', your role in the matter is more significant than you think. Your ability to be ‘in the moment’ and 'just let go', will in fact dictate how your sexual organs respond to stimulus, and there's wide range of sensations you could potentially feel when this is done. It's true that a skilled and trustworthy lover helps tremendously with finding your G-spot, but in order to reach this wonderfully liberating state of arousal, your body and your mind have to allow it to come to fruition; and for that to happen, you have to capable of reaching a harmonious balance of breathing, relaxation and confidence in your partner. This is no easy task what with the stresses of everyday life distracting us from being in the moment, but with a little bit of time and practice, you (and he) will learn to fine tune this skill.
When the G-spot gets stimulated, the results will vary. The most commonly reported reaction is to experience an urge to urinate, although some feel numbness in the area while others experience discomfort. It is very likely that the ‘pain’ you experienced during stimulation is a result of instinctively clamping down on the PC muscles when you feel the urge to urinate (which is often mistaken for the need to ‘Ejaculate’). Another explanation for the pain is that many individuals tense their bodies to build up erotic intensity; this works to get you turned you on, but after a certain point the vigor can actually overwhelm, inhibit and subsequently lead to soreness. However, to be on the safe side, we strongly encourage consulting with a doctor if the pain is severe and/or continues on.
Posted: 17 Aug 20:43