There's absolutely no reason you "have" to like it. If anything you probably won't just for the sake that it now has this extra mental baggage associated with it. My wife doesn't like it either, and we were pretty much 100% oral up till the point we started having penetrative sex back in the dating years. Just think of it this way, no matter what the restaurant or who the chef, some people just don't like chocolate cake.
Also, I read in there "because X is more pleasurable". This may be only my opinion, but only shooting for the top shelf orgasm can preoccupy a person, so that a standard issue orgasm makes you feel "cheated out". Just like, steak is my absolute favorite meal, but there are days I just really want plain old crappy pizza the most. Just because something isn't the best doesn't mean it's not fun to do.
My analogies aren't masking how hungry I am right now. :)
So for receiving oral, I'd say you've definitely given it the "college try", so don't fret. Who knows, maybe every few months or so, give it another whirl. Or, don't specifically do it for the goal of orgasm. Just do it for the fun of it, or for foreplay or whatnot. 5 minutes. That would at least take the pressure off of it, for both parties.
Take care...
Who knows it may come back later on.
Firmus
Posted: 05 Oct 23:33
