In the Crossed variation of the Butterfly position, the woman crosses her legs over the man's shoulders, creating a tighter squeeze that should be more enjoyable by both partners. However, crossing her legs greatly reduces clitoral access for manual stimulation, one of the best features of this family of positions. For those who consider clitoral stimulation a must, we had limited success with the man using his thumb on the side of her crossing-over leg. We recommend that you try crossing the legs in both directions to see if either works better for the penis in your relationship.
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