Hey y'all. I've been looking at these message boards for quite some time but never felt the need to post something. I figured since we haven't had any new tips in awhile I would put in my two cents :;):
Before I divulge all, let me say that my boyfriend is INCREDIBLE in bed and knows what he is doing. Guys, if you're having a little trouble with your woman or are new at oral sex, I would recommend reading this! He has never had any previous (or current) complaints in the bedroom. So these techniques will work for most females.
Usually when we start fooling around, he will make sure to give my whole body the attention it deserves. After kissing me, he might kiss his way to my ear and softly suck on it. A lot of guys don't realize this but it drives many girls wild. There are many nerve endings in the ear. Then he will go to my neck and collar bone and slowly kiss it (a la American Pie 2). At this point I'm starting to get really turned on. He'll kiss down to my breasts which is another spot that should be given a lot of attention! The breasts especially the nipples are very sensitive to touch. The thing that feels best personally is when he either licks my nipples very slowly in circles or twists them gently between his thumb and index finger. I've realized that slow is better than fast when it comes to stimulating this area of the body.
He will travel down to my stomach and maybe linger at my belly button, another sensitive spot. Still kissing down, He'll slowly rip off my pants and underwear. By this point I am usually very wet , but he will NOT start eating me out just yet. Despite what some say it IS good to tease, fellas! It makes the girls want it more and it feels much better in the long run. He'll then spread my legs as wide as they go and kiss the inner areas of my thigh, maybe nibbling a little bit, too. He'll kiss and lick every area BUT my clit. If anything, he'll slowly rub my clit in circles with his finger just to get me going a little bit. Eventually he will give my clit one long slow lick, from the "head" to the "base." Finally, he will start eating me out, but still won't go full speed yet! Usually he'll start off at a slow pace, licking slowly and softly all over my clit. It is not best to start off really fast. While he is doing this he might reach up and rub a nipple with his thumb. Now, you can also put a finger or two into her vagina for an added bonus, but some women (including myself) do not enjoy it enough where it is worth it. As my climax is building up more and more, he will lick faster and harder.
There's many techniques to use at this point. One of my personal favorites is flicking the clit really fast or going in little circles. You can also try sucking the clit softly into your mouth while licking it at the same time. This technique drives me insane! Also, you know a girl is close to orgasm if her nipples are hard as a rock. This is when they are most sensitive and my boyfriend at this point usually reaches up to both of them and rubs them in circles very furiously and quickly. This almost always brings me over the edge within seconds.
After she orgasms, don’t necessarily stop what you are doing. It is true that some women become way too sensitive to touch at this point, but if you again become slow and gentle most can handle it. After my climax, my boyfriend usually gives me a little kiss and says he loves me. It just makes me feel incredibly sexy. If she’s not a very vocal person, ask her how you did and how you can improve, although you can usually tell whether you’re doing a good job or not. Also, If you want to feel more connected with your lover, look her in the eyes when she climaxes.
There is something else that works well, but not all women will go for it. If your girl is extremely close to the edge, stop what you are doing for 10 seconds or so, so she doesn’t cum. If you do this a few times before the grand finale, the orgasm will feel 10 times better. Before you do this, ask her first because some may not have the will power :;): Tell her to squeeze your hand when she is really close so you know when to stop. During that 10 seconds you can start kissing her or fondle her breasts. A good lover NEVER stops doing anything. Both of your hands and mouth, of course, should be occupied while eating your woman out.
Well, before this post becomes too long, I think my job here is done! To y’all who are struggling, look this over and try some things out. Have fun!
Posted: 05 Oct 04:50