Restarting

For the past 30 or so years the wife and I have been concentrating on career and kids. Now it's our time. All the kids are on their own and last night we had a deep discussion about getting back to sex. So I booked an adult resort with walk in shower, hot tub and stuff. Now thinking about surprising her with a toy (not a big 20 incher) something for beginners and to kick start us. I looked at a few toy sites and the selection was mind boggling. So I am asking for some advice. Also thinking about massage oils....any suggestions?????