threesome?
ive been dating a girl for two years now...and yes love is involved. although the sex isint all that great...well not for her atleast. neither of us are all that interested in self exploration, the difference is i already know my body, she hasent clue one about the female anatomy. and like i said: doesent care to learn. witch can make it quite dificult to please her. on the other hand tho, she is facinated with learning about me...learning about others. witch could be good since she has expressed intrest in one of our freinds, our closest freind in fact...we both love her very much. and i have a feeling that involving her could be exactly the motivation my g/f needs to learn about pleasing women, and in doing so...learn more about herself. damn. this is getting way to long...basicaly is it posible that a threesome can help a loving relationship rather than hurting it?
jonnyonaleash
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I've seen a threesome do more harm then good to any relationship.....In my opinion, I don't care how secure you are in your relationship. You shouldn't need a 3rd person involved in your relationship. Send her to this site, have her read the helpful tips etc. go to the library, explore other ways for her to learn, but a 3some, if she isn't comfortable with herself with you; how in the world do you or her for that fact think she will be comfortable with anyother woman. I see a rage of jealousy coming out in this woman if you please this "closest friend" much more then you please her....:mad: ...be very careful where you take your next step concerning your gf
cavewoman362
well ive had a threesome before, and it wasent that bad of an experiance at all. however i wasent in love with either of them... and our relationship is fine. even sexualy (in fact for me its amazing) i just think it could be beter if she was willing to learn more about herself...theres only so much i can do with general knolage. (if youve noticed, half this site is "be gentile and let her tell you what she likes" "comunicate with your partner" "learn what your parner likes and dislikes" witch is hard to learn when she doesent know or care.)
she is comfortable with me tho, shes just the kind of person who prefers pleasing others, as am i...the diferance is she doesent care AT ALL about pleasing herself. if it werent for me or the ocational animal lust shed have no part in it. witch is why i thot she could learn about herself by playing with some1...similarly endowed. in fact i wasent planing on being all that involved at all. btw i mean "clossest freind" in a sence that we both basicaly tell her everything, she already has a good understanding of our relationship, shes had a crush on both of us for a long time (in fact shes the one who sujests a threesome...not for this reason tho) and my g/f has a crush on her
so we have involved her in our relationship in many ways (just never sexualy). she just has an uncanny ability to bring all of us even closer together wenever were with her.
i thank you both tho because even if i failed to describe the situation the best i could i think the general idea your trying to portray is that for the most part, no mater what...its not worth the risk. i guess thats what i wanted to know. maybe shel become more receptive (to learning about herself) as time goes on...although i have talked to her about it.
jonnyonaleash