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What do you wish someone had told you earlier?

About sex, relationships, your body, any of it. What's something you had to figure out the hard way that you wish someone had just told you?

I feel like there's so much basic stuff that nobody actually explains and we're all just out here guessing.

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That what you see in porn is not what real sex looks like. I spent way too long thinking something was wrong with me because it didn't look or feel like what I'd seen. Nobody told me that was all performance.

That it's okay to say no at any point, even if you already said yes. Even if you're in the middle of it. I didn't learn that until way later than I should have.

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