Causing her pain hitting her cervix during sex

Its not that her cervix is short... its that her vaginal canal is short. Most women's canals are like 3-4 inches anyways and when we get excited and turned on... things down there expand and move around so that we are able to accept a penis. Some women's move more than usual.
Make sure you are having lots of foreplay, if needed extra lube, and just try positions that make it more comfortable for her. One would probably be missionary w/ a pillow under her butt. That should help.
If she is new to sex it might be her body just needs to adjust...be patient..good luck

demonbuttercup

we've been having sex for about a year and a half. the whole point of this question was NOT to be given a "missionary" answer. thats all we do already, and that all she likes, and i hate it. do short women have a shorter cervix?

bennybear

Dude, what's with the attitude? She sat there and said that women have short canals, not short cervixes. But yet you come back and snap at her like she didn't answer your question when she did?

Fine, I'll say it all again, in my own words.
As she said, there's really no such thing as a "shorter cervix", so please, get that out of your brain.
It's her canal that's short.
I have a short canal. I have a narrow canal. Penetrating me usually causes pain, ESPECIALLY from behind. However, the more turned on I am, the more I am able to accept the penis or the vibrator or whatever.
I have found that astroglide works wonders for me. It lessens the pain and allows a deeper penetration.

I would say that over time, generally the vagina gets used to being expanded and doesn't hurt when it's stretched but after a year and a half in your case, I guess you could say that's not gonna happen.
So, the only thing I, and probably most other people on here can tell you, is you're just going to have to stick with the "missionary" thing. If that's what works for her without pain, then that's what works.

While it is nice to change it up and spice it up some, from someone who has experienced pain before during sex, I'd much rather be in the same position without pain than try other ways and experience pain.

thetease13

Well you never said all you do it missionary so how was I supposed to know. you made it sound like every thing hurt her. She can't help that her CANAL is shorter than average.

demonbuttercup

yes buttercup and tease r RIGHT....it is most definitely not that her cervix was too short....that doesnt make sense in this situation...maybe read an anatomy book or something...it is the CANAL...not cervix.
i would just suggest more foreplay and maybe have her TRY the on top positions to see if any angles make her feel good.

-mariah

girl12

has she talked to her gyno about this? she really should mention it next time she goes for a pap test. i am not diagnosing her problem but i experience pain sometimes during sex and my doc told me its cuz i have a tilted uterus (or tipped or something) which causes me to feel little jabs of pain like my guy is in too deep. this happens especially when we have sex in the missionary position. might try having her lift her hips up abit or put a pillow under her butt or kinda hold her bottom up abit.... might have her try wrapping her legs round your back or rest on your shoulders... try doggy style or her on top.
doc also told me that having a tipped uterus like i do might cause probems if i got pg or problems during delivery or..... which is another reason she needs to mention this to her doc.
im not sure her height or weight have anything to do with the positioning of her uterus. im 5'4, my guys 6".

soulmates82

People watch too much porn and the blokes put it in before the woman is ready. get her REALLY aroused. Kissing, stroking, playing with her body, licking and fingering. Talk dirty maybe.
her canal will extend, she will get really wet. Then it will go in without hurting her. And you will be less likely to bruise her cervix.
Besides, getting a lady properly pleasured is so much fun.