Oral sex on wife does nothing for her
My wife can easily achieve orgasm with a vibrator on her clitoris but if I use my tongue, fingers she says it does nothing for her. Is it possible that she has become desensitized from the vibrator?
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I know the two of you are no longer posting but for anyone else, my wife was the same. We finally figured out for her, oral on her is foreplay, very pleasurable, but also can be very relaxing. She could enjoy it all day like being at a spa. Moving from oral to other things that stimulate her brain more then back to oral and back to some other play works best if we are desiring for oral to trigger something in her. We both were very surprised at how much she loves oral after intercourse. This is when she most definitely gets into it. Then we also discovered that watching via mirrors does even more. Adding additional play mixed in, intercourse, visual stimulation, and yes, even anal touch/play, as well as I guess you'd call it cum play, include high level sexual verbal exchanges and she now goes ape.