OP: Would you date someone who was bisexual?

Yes I hear you on this. I have watched plenty of Oprah to see what a tragedy for men/women that come out years later have done to their families.

It is all a very complicated thing I imagine.

I don't even pretend to understand homosexuals or the struggles they must go through to have acceptance in this world.

I am a Christian and have been reared in all the scriptures and such. Don't need to go into that but I do wonder about the choice thing.

I mean why would people chose willing to be something that will cause them so much stress in life?

I don't know, it's all to much for my brain. Heck I am to busy trying to sort out who I am in this world right now.

I do think I hi-jacked this thread though.

Tessie

Posted: 03 Oct 09:21

Labels have been with us since the beginning of recorded history, so to thump my chest in abhorrance of such things is futal - tho it does feel good to say it.

As far as what oberon said earlier about "chemical imbalance" as a cause for bisexuality - of course it's possible. But again, i view bisexuality as kinda like sexual purgetory ..ahahhaha...and again..it's all about CHOOSING WHO TO HAVE SEX WITH.

If tessie decided she wanted to try sex with a woman and enjoyed it...GREAT....if she didin't like it..thats fine too. The same with her hubby....if he were to try it FINE, etc. But we're not talking about life partnerships here....it's just hedonistic fun. And personally, i think it's cool either way...and there's no harm in exploring all parts of sex (safely and consensually of course).

I mean, if Tessie had her hubby blindfolded and a guy was to perform oral on him.....and he liked it..would that make him any less her hubby or heterosexual? Of course not. Does it make him bi? Nope, just means it felt good. Any volunteers for this experiment? hahaha..just kidding Tessie!

I've yet to meet a bisexual person who could honestly say "I have fallen totally in love with a man or a woman..and could enjoy each as a primary life partner.

I just like to really keep the issues of SEX and LOVE separate.

Being the father of a 14 year old son, i think i've got proof that i was able to get hard and impregnate my xwife. I CHOSE to have sex with her...but in my heart, i finally came to understand that the love i had for her was not the kind of love that completed me. You know the rest of the story, so i won't bore anyone with repeating it.

My xwife even said....."honey, you're either gay or str8....so you need to find out for yourself and stop relying on the "bi" title as a way of not addressing who you really are inside."

Is this a ramble or what? ahahhahaah. HOpe i made sense!~

Rawbob

Posted: 03 Oct 09:22

I personally wouldn't date a bi-sexual girl.

It's probably enough thinking about what they may be getting up to with guys behind your back, so I wouldn't want something else to have to think about as well.

Posted: 15 Apr 13:34

This is a old post andinteresting. I don't know how I missed this one?? Let's see if anyone opinions have changed.
I agree with Tessie, I would not be with a guy that was Bi, nothing against it, but No.
I don't consider myself Bi, but I do have a gf that I've known since we were 12. This started and got physical as a early teen. We are each other's only females, and I believe and trust her. We are mid 20's now and she is married, I'm not. My bf of two years does not know, but I'm sure, through pillow talk, he's interested in a 3way, as most men are. Asking him pointedly his choice of my friends, he would chose my gf. So Tessie, if your bf knows your willing to bring another into the relationship, he's going to want it. When my gf told he husband about our relationship he dropped many hints lol. We did agree to surprise him last year for his B-day. A first 3way for her and I. Great party and he got kinda plowed, so later when it was time to surprise him it was more her and I getting it on, although his one time effort was acceptable. If you do decide to gift him with a 3way, and haven't been with another women, pick someone close that your comfortable with. Maybe have a prior hookup between you and her, because stranger in a three way can be awkward ifmits a first time..... not my experience, only from girl talk.

Posted: 09 Nov 15:25