A pap smear will show nothing. For maybe a day after sex sperm will be present. Even if she has sperm present on the swab, the test is for abnormal cells and the lab tech is not interested in whether or not there are signs of recent sexual activity.
I think a pap would be a good idea for any woman coming into the age of sexual activity but the mother is just trying to threaten you. If a mother walked into my office and demanded a pap smear out of the context of an examination, I would ask her why she was demanding that. If she said it was to spy on her daughter, I would refuse.
It is not uncommon to have strange requests from overbearing mothers. We usually tell them, politely, to get stuffed.
In the meantime brush up on oral techniques and start having contraception present. Eventually you will need that.
And, by the way, if you use a condom there will be nothing to find in there!
Brandye
Posted: 02 Oct 22:20