Asking her doesn't usually get me anywhere. I think part of the problem is that this is her first pregnancy so she is experiencing all of this for the first time. She isn't really sure what she wants/needs.
The problem with forgoing the orgasm is that when after we get started, she wants to go all the way. It is getting her to that point of wanting it is the problem. I have read books that speak about sex during pregnancy, and they all say to let her make the first move because she knows what her body wants. The only problem with that is that she has never been the one in the relationship to make the first move. Every once in a while she would but it was usually me.
I guess I am just looking for ways to be intimate with her without going down that road. Also just looking for advice from those who have been there.
Posted: 30 Sep 19:09