> she went down on me three times and gave me two hand jobs
How many orgasms did you have in those four hours? That is the key to knowing if you over did it.
Everybody's sex drive different. Some guys can and sometimes do have more than one climax a day, regardless of their usual pace that might be once every few days, once every two-three days, or once a day. It all hinges upon age, sex drive, stress, and how much time we have on our hands for the pure pleasure of it all.
> we were both pretty exhausted afterwards. well on our last little pleasure trip, my erection felt sore and i had to stop because it was so uncomfortable...and since then i really havent been physically into fooling around...i want too but my body says otherwise.
The average male can muster up three orgasms in a day through middle age, be they spread out over the course of 24 hours, or, two or more in one session for multiple orgasms. A boy right out of puberty can often have four or more for quite a while. At some point, if we try to do it too many times our body will "cry uncle" and simply refuse to respond for several hours. The time required for our body to recoup and rejuvenate varies, although, if the "well" is "dry" plan on it taking two-three days before getting a full head of steam, again.
If you are trying to bunch two or more orgasms together in order to enjoy a multiple session, you will typically find that each subsequent orgasm in the string becomes somewhat more difficult to trigger. This equates to more time and effort--and more rubbing. More rubbing means more friction and this can result in soreness and/or chafing of the skin. The fix is to use a lubricant that will allow you to use a much lighter touch and gentler stroking action.
No matter how frequently a guy masturbates or makes love in a week, or, how many orgasms he has in a day, he quickly learns that he has to manage them. This means determining how many orgasms he is capable of vs. how many he thinks he is going to need that day. This becomes a balancing act between managing the relief of stress and enjoying pleasure for the sake of pleasure.
A guy who climaxes once or twice a day or less will probably not have any difficulty maintaining that pace. The problem happens when we try to go for more than two a day, and for more than a day or two together. Our bodies need a break and time to replenish the (well) so to speak. Learn to pace yourself.
Each additional orgasm in a day often becomes more difficult to trigger than the first one. Also, each additional one will put out less semen by volume and thus be less intense than previous ones--good none the less.
If you find it difficult to get it up, have a climax, or have become sore, from going at it hot and heavily, you'll have to give it a rest for a day or so. (Ain't managing fun?)
As for pain, I gather from your opening statement that this is from stroking too long/hard/vigorously. There is another type of (pseudo) pain that can occur immediately after a climax--and, when we are in the company of a lover. For women, this hypersensitivity happens immediately prior to the triggering of an orgasm. In both cases, the painfulness goes away after several minutes. It is a reaction to the release of a chemical by the brain.
I hope this is helpful. Got questions?
dancingdoc2
Posted: 23 Sep 06:14