It is fairly simple really. You are not forcing her to do anything. Dominants do not force people, they lead or direct. The so called "submissive" partner follows that lead, and obeys directions or orders because she or he desires and consents to do so. Many men feel strange about acting out these feelings and are often surprised and perplexed to discover that they enjoy it.
There is nothing wrong with most sexual activity between consenting adults. Draw the line where either of you feel uncomfortable about the physical or psychological safety of and activity.
Posted: 03 Oct 23:08