A good question, that.
Part of the answer as to do with scheduling. You do not have to enter a day and time on the calendar, although, you can put the children to bed early, especially if they do not already go to bed long before the two of you do.
Schedule household chores and train the children to pick up after themselves so neither of you have to.
A relationship is a partnership. Are you an active participant in maintaining the household or are you the guy who comes home, sits down in front of the TV with a drink, burps, and check out for a while, having to be asked to take the garbage out, wash the dishes, help with meal preparation, etc?
Are any of the children old enough to do chores so that you have a few minutes for other things?
Instead of cleaning the entire house on a particular day and becoming warn out, clean one or two rooms a day in rotation.
Meal preparation can be handled most weeks by only cooking three days a week and then fixing leftovers the other days.
The idea behind all this is to free up both spare time and energy for the two of you and not be so exhausted or tired at the end of the day. Your best way to find free time is after the children go to bed. Another way is to rest a few minutes after arriving home, and then insist that your wife take a restful bath before rejoining the family and continuing on with the business at hand/leg/foot.
Another scheduling point to consider is to wake up :45 early and have your close personal togetherness early in the morning when fully rested.
The Program --the short version
Your guide to wild rampant skin-on-skin full-body-contact sex--the short version.
1. massage--short, sweet, of those areas that may need attention
2. erotic massage/necking--
3. body worship--2/3 = :30-:40 min.
4. manual stimulation--as needed/desired
5. cunnilingus/fellatio-- " "
6. cunnilingus/fellatio with manual stimulation of the G-Spot/P-Spot
7. G-Spot caressing using the penis
8. posterior fornix caressing using the penis
9. alternate between the G-Spot and the posterior fornix for as long as he can hold out--or as/if time permits
if a break between her orgasms is needed return to body worship to keep her warm
10. time for his climax
Repeat three times per session--as/if time permits.
Have three sessions per week--as schedule permits.
Spending time on 1,2, and 3 guarantees completion on 4 through 10.
Proper outercourse leads to intercourse.
Take turns "leading" with your partner.
Work together in partnership. Plan your "work" and work your plan.
Posted: 05 Oct 23:03