I'm 19 and I've been going out with my boyfriend, who is 24, for 9 months, I lost my virginity to him 8 months ago and everything is good except for the fact that I have an extremely high sex drive and he never wants to have sex with me.
As we live together, we share a bed and I am not allowed to touch him unless he is hard. I will dress up, ask if he wants a blow-job, walk around naked, anything to get his attention but he seems un-phased by it.
What can I do to get more sex?
girlinterrupted
Posted: 05 Oct 21:05
i have to say that the feedback so far on this question is pointing to a huge double-standard in the community. i respectfully submit that if a male submitted the question posed that the women would not be responding to 'get rid of him', 'run for the hills', 'get out while you can' type of commentary. It would be 'relationships are more than sex alone', you need to listen to her more, talk to her more, etc etc. give me a break
joeboxeruncut
Posted: 05 Oct 21:16
I think the reason for that is that these don't seem like healthy relationships... ex: Not allowed to touch his penis unless it's hard.
cool macs
Posted: 05 Oct 21:17
yes, I have counseled men whose wives/gfs no longer wish to have sex with them to "move on" or at least have detailed their options.
EvilEvilKitten
Posted: 05 Oct 21:18
Just leave him. You're not married, you don't have kids and so you are not obligated to tolerate the situation. I would give the same advice if it was the other way around. Sexual incompatibility is not good for a relationship.
PerKr
Posted: 05 Oct 21:18
