My bf wants to try anal with another guy, I'm worried he'll like it more than me
Hey all, newbie here, so be gentle me...at first;)
My bf is bi curious...He really wants to be fucked up the ass by another guy. I'm very sexually open, I've had 3somes, 4somes, swing, girl on girl....I really wanna fullfill his fantasy...but, I'm scared he's gonna end up liking it too much...I also don't know if he's gonna be able for it, his ass is so tight. We're not together that long. The sex is the best I've ever had and I REALLY like him.
Any advice for me?
Lucyfur
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If he wants to explore his curiosity that bad, he'll do it with or without you. As for enjoying it too much, you can't keep him from being who he is. If he's attracted to men, then he's most likely going to have sex with men. If he just wants to be penetrated, maybe you could do it for him with a strap on. My wife does it to me and I love it. I have no desire to do it with a guy, so that may scratch his itch as well.
I would do a search and do some reading on safe anal sex. His ass may be tight, but if you prepare properly he should be okay. You should never just shove something in.
Buck Naked
Thanks for replying Buck....I have absolutely no intentions of keeping him from who he wants to be, he says he's not attracted to men, he just wants the penetration, so a strap on is definetly on the cards...if a 3some arose and he did want more, well, I'm not gonna hold him back, it'd be a recipe for disaster if I did.
And, no, I wouldn't just 'shove it in';)....I fully understand the preparation thats involved in pleasurable anal.
We're both very open with each other, I love the fact that we have HONEST fantasys...theres no bs with us. I want to explore and experiment with him.
Lucyfur
Lucyfur, a tight ass isn't a roadblock, it just requires patience. There are actually 2 anal spincters that need to be penetrated. One that you have concious control over, and one that you do not. It's the unconcious one that makes you tight, even when you try to relax. But, lol, if you stretch it very gradually, and keep it lubed, just like any other muscle it will stretch, and open up for you. Also, using progressively larger diamerter butt plugs as it stretches can work well, plus let you do other things to take his mind off of his tight ass as it stretches & opens. If you keep it lubed, and stretch it very slowly, you needn't ever see blood there at all, but a bit isn't uncommon.
sammyluvs2suc
I'd advise using a strap-on with him. He is comfortable with you and you with him. Lube it up, and slide it in. Incorporate it in your sex routine, and if he enjoys it, when you are comfortable with it, invite a M to join you and do it for real. That way it is safe and comfortable for the 2 of you to become accustomed to it.
dcman1980
iv neva actually used a strap on.. on my bf however i have stimulated him with my fingers whilst during oral to try to further enhance his pleasure an he loved it!... id try encorporating the strap on into ur sex lives 1st as if its just the penetration he wants he may well be more than satisfied..
lisa4daz