Lotus

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The Lotus family consists of positions where the man sits in a cross legged position, with his partner on top. With reduced movement range, sex in a lotus variation tends to be a little slower and more intimate, especially in the variations that are face to face.

Due to the man's sitting position, his range of movement is rather restricted, so getting the rhythm down can be a little tricky in many of the variations. Make sure to start slow to get the hang of them... and as you do, make sure to experiment with circular hip movements to feel everything it has to offer.

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Position Variations

Lotus

The standard variation of the Lotus family has the woman's feet planted behind the man, and consequently offers some of the better mobility in the group. That said, getting the hang of the lateral movement can be a little tricky, so make sure not to get discouraged to quickly. If you find the movement to be too difficult, we recommend for women to plant their hands on the man's legs, and to use their triceps to generate some lift. Crabby Lotus

Although difficult to maintain for extended periods, the Crabby variation of Lotus is well worth the effort. Having both feet and hands planted allows the woman much greater control over her mobility, allowing her to combine the more common rotational movement of this family with some lateral potential. If you find the posture to difficult on the arms, we recommend trying it out against a couch or ottoman, so that women can use the edge to take some of the load off. Folded Lotus

One of the most difficult forms of the Lotus, the Folded variation brings the woman's legs up and inward to straddle the man's neck. With the right combination of a stronger man and smaller woman, the man will be able to lift the woman to generate some penetration distance, but most of us mere mortals will be limited to the range found in moving the hips. We recommend to start out extra slow with this one, as it can be pretty straining on the man's back; consider first trying it out against a couch so that the man can lean back for some support. Kneeling Lotus

Featuring some of the best mobility in the Lotus position, the Kneeling variation puts the woman on her knees, and is likely the best place for most to start. On top of the mobility, it is very intimate and places the man's pubic bone ideally for women to rub their clits against. However, couples with a significant difference in body size may find it a little tough to straddle their partner with their legs crossed. Lazy Lotus

In the Lazy variation of the Lotus family, the woman extends her legs forward and relaxes them. Offering very limited mobility, this position is best suited for grinding, hanging out while working those kegels, or even just as an intimate road stop between more active positions... which would be a great time to bring sexinfo up on your phone to see what you want to try next! Mixed Lotus

Serving as a placeholder for all the different combinations of Lotus possible, the Mixed variation is here to remind everyone to get off the beaten path. Breaking symmetry not only gives you many more options to explore, you may find new angles that are ideal for the shape of your body. If you discover something worth sharing, please make sure to comment below! Wrapped Lotus

The Wrapped variation of the Lotus position features the woman's legs wrapped around the man. Although considered by many to be extremely intimate, its limited mobility results in many people writing it off before fully experiencing its perks. For those willing to invest the time to learn how to work their hips and kegels, it can be a great way to connect with their partner. If you don't like it at first, we recommend revisiting it once in a while as you improve your skills to see if it grows on you.

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Lotus

I want to try this

11 Mar 2019 04:10

Kneeling Lotus

this one is great if you want to burn some calories while having sex.
quad workout though if you want to go hard, after 30 seconds the burning sensation in your thighs. made me need to stop.
really intimate, try necking at the same time to heighten the senses.

29 Oct 2017 04:41

Kneeling Lotus

I love this one. My bf and I have done this about 3 times and each time he's given me more than one orgasm, and I can make him cum faster in this one too. We love the eye contact and if we aren't making eye contact one of us has either finished or he's enjoying my breast ;)

29 Oct 2017 04:40

Wrapped Lotus

This is my favorite and most intimate position...I love it. I feel like I'm in control but at the same time he is too...and I love to give him little nibbles and kisses whilst riding. :)

26 Oct 2017 21:02

Wrapped Lotus

tried this one for the first time last night. began in cowgirl and it was a bit of a rocky transition to this but it was a very romantic and intimate finishing position. very deep and hit the g-spot :)

26 Oct 2017 21:02

Wrapped Lotus

very amazing position. seeing my boyfriends reaction while doing this position is priceless! we loved every moment of it, and it's a really great feeling being so close to each other. great position if you wanna sneak in a few kisses too, haha :) it was really easy to move, and the feeling of the rocking back and forth was amazing. i definitely recommend this for couples who want to get a little up close and personal ;)

26 Oct 2017 21:01

Wrapped Lotus

I'm glad my husband found this site, I was sick a few weeks ago and he came here to find new positions to "cheer me up". I love the Lotus, he's a very physical lover and I love how cuddly this position is ^^
whenever we do it like this he gives me almost a full back massage before he climaxes, I love the slow yet plentiful orgasms I can get during this position!

26 Oct 2017 21:01

Wrapped Lotus

Me and my boyfriend tried this position last night, and damn did it feel good!

We also tried a variant where we lean away from each other, he held me with his hands on my lower back, and I hand one hand on his shoulder, one hand behind me, and we both could watch him entering me. It was so erotic to actually watch that, I ended up just going absolutely wild! ^.-

26 Oct 2017 21:00

Wrapped Lotus

This position is so relaxing, I have the most craziest orgasms when he slowly lays down and pulls me on top as i sit up on his cock and he bounces me like fucking crazy as my feet are locked in under his back/hips, i end up cumming all over him, he loves it.

26 Oct 2017 20:59

Wrapped Lotus

This one is awesome! Provided the girl sits kinda between the guy's legs and not on them to avoid distracting discomfort then you can have a great time with this position. The closeness is really exhilarating - you're close enough to feel each other's breath on your neck, or stare into one another's eyes; whatever you prefer. It also gives you great penetration and an amazing slow build which makes the climax incredible. You can vary the speeds, and if you prefer it fast and dirty to slow and romantic, then just lean back and go for it!
Also, it gives good opportunities for leaving scratch-marks down your partner's back. My girl does that quite often, and in the heat of the moment neither of us notice - until I walk past a mirror later! Girls, check your nails and guys, wear your cat scratches with pride!

26 Oct 2017 20:58