I agree with the people saying they get tired on top... It's probably harder for women on top than the men because i could hump all day long if that's what it envolved but we have to go up and down which requires a lot more effort...
But it's always a real help that my boyfriend helps me out so we're both doing the work (:
When i'm riding on top, I like to lean back, but for the longest time he never would play with my clit. Lately he's caught on. =) But, when you lean back, your clit is exposed and when he plays with it, basically fingers it, it helps your orgasm come faster and it makes the experience MUCH more exotic.
Most of the replies stress the position's physical rewards. Remember, the brain in the most important sex organ. A woman on top can let her dominant fantasies run wild. My favorite is a role-reversal in which I'm the masterful "husband" fucking my submissive male "wife." It's even better when I lie down full-length on him and wrap my legs around his. I passionately French kiss him and whisper: "You're a great piece of ass. I could fuck you all night!" I think it's good for a man's ego to know that he can be used for a woman's pleasure, just as he uses her.
This is so hot, and my gf and I have done this also. She teases me when we're in this position. She calls me her "little bitch" when she's on top, which in reality is kind of funny since I'm over 6 feet tall and weigh 280. Still, it is erotic and a lot of fun for both of us.
Have her slide up a little further on your hips so the base of your penis is pressed between her vagina and anus. This causes a unique pressure directly on her G-spot by the tip of your penis.
The added benefit to this is the guy can last longer while this drives her level of ecstacy to new plateaus.
Also, this gives the guy added manuverablilty to rock, twist and thrust his hips while allowing the girl additional flexibility to move her hips in response.
The results were incredible.
Love this position so much! Just love watching my mans face while I do the riding. Problem is I do this for a while my inner thighs are always killing the next day ... lol.
This position is definitely a great position for guys since they get full view of your breasts and they can reach around to grab your butt. (Which feels awesome since it tightens to bounce around).
But hands down even better for a woman. My girlfriend can grind back and forth for a quick and dirty finish, or up and down for a slow and powerful one.
My husband likes to do it hard. He shoves himself in me and bounces me up and down really hard. It feels so good, but sometimes it can hurt if you stay too long. It pays off though because you get even more hornier!
My wife sits up straight, pushes out her breasts & reaches around to tickles my balls. My absolute favorite, indeed!!!!
Here's some advice for whoever finds it a little difficult. Lean you body forward closer towards him so that you're almost laying on him. Still straddled, this position gives you more leverage so you don't have to vertically move up & down. As you're leaning over him, arch your back & move your lower body up & down. You'll catch the flow....& so will he...
I love how deep this one feels when we fuck. Especially when he cums inside me, the sensations are just incredible. But this can be kind of painful if he is really big.
I use this position all the time with the ladies, it really gives DEEP penetration. I like to stop occasionally and lick her pussy then continue, talk about major orgasms! Hehehe
did this with my boy for my birthday! talk about some really good orgasms and just really good all around! This gets SO deep and allows you both to really get close!
tee hee i think my boyfriend's cock is too big to do this one :) unless i'm horny beyond belief, having my legs up makes him hits my cervix or somethin, idk it just hurts ha :)
definitely a fave of mine. my girl likes to have me push her legs back a little further. once we get going really heavy in this position, i like to put my left knee on the bed, keep my right knee on the floor and come in at an angle. i wait until shes about to get off before i do it though because it makes me cum REALLY fast!
i tried this position tonight and i havent ever heard a girl scream so much from pleasure before. once we were done she couldnt move or stop shaking her legs were numb and quivering for 10 mins after we had sex. most definetly doing this position again. highly recommended to try it out
This position is amazing! My bf kept it going for a long time and I was dripping wet. We both came over and over again. My favorite position of all. Can't recommend it enough.
From leaning forward with my hands on the sides of his head & letting him do the thrusting, next, up with hands on his chest. Then sitting up full rocking my pelvis front to back (nice clit contact for a hands-free orgasm), to leaning back so I can reach his scrotum. Also squatting makes up & down action for him easier for me, just can't do that one very long.