My partner is all about seduction - the actions that lead up to my mouth around him are what he finds really exciting. I usually start with lightly trailing a finger over his crotch and slowly starting to rub him, just to let him know that I'm in the mood. I start to lick him OVER his boxers as a tease, and apparently the warm breath feels really good.
Then I slip him out of his boxers and gently flick my tongue over and around the head, some harder ones down the shaft, then start to suck the balls - now, my partner likes me to do this a little more aggressively (anyone else's thoughts on that matter?), so I oblige for a new minutes.
Next, I kiss the sides of the shaft and softly suck small areas of skin, almost like an incredibly delicate hickey with no teeth. I then go back up to the head and suck that hard for a while...I use my hand at the same time so it gives a deeper feeling for him and I don't have to worry about deep-throating for a while. After that, I basically just increase the speed and intensity until he ejaculates and I keep sucking...I'm a swallower so I don't have to worry about any disposal.
I guess it's all about exploring and coming up with your own rhythm that's comfortable for both parties - my boyfriend says I give the best blowjobs he's ever had, and I thoroughly believe him just from how relaxed he is afterwards and the sounds he makes during.
UltraViolet
Posted: 05 Oct 03:40